This article explains how to make a ‘safety plan’ to help keep you safe when you are struggling with suicidal thoughts.

Feeling suicidal is the result of experiencing extreme pain, and not having the resources to cope. We therefore need to reduce pain and increase coping resources. These feelings will pass.

If you think you are at imminent risk of acting on suicidal thoughts then please seek help straight away - see urgent support for suggestions of who to contact.

  • If you sometimes struggle with suicidal thoughts, complete the form below when you are not feeling imminently at risk - see the example further down for ideas
  • When you are feeling suicidal, follow the plan one step at a time until you are safe
  • Keep the plan where you can easily find it when you’ll need it

Completing a Safety Plan is easier with support. The Student Wellbeing Service offers confidential help with a wide range of personal and emotional concerns and is available to every student at the University, free of charge. We are experienced in supporting students with suicidal thoughts, and can help you devise a personalised Safety Plan. Read our article on accessing support.

What I need to do to reduce the risk of me acting on the suicidal thoughts:

What warning signs or triggers are there that make me feel more out of control?

What have I done in the past that helped? What ways of coping do I have?

What I will do to help calm and soothe myself:

What I will tell myself (as alternatives to the dark thoughts):

What would I say to a close friend who was feeling this way?

What could others do that would help?

Who can I call:

  • Friend or relative: Another?
  • Health professional: Other?
  • Telephone helpline: Other?

A safe place I can go to:

If I still feel suicidal and out of control:

  • I will go to the A& E department
  • If I can’t get there safely, I will call 999 (112, 911 etc)

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Example:

What I need to do to reduce the risk of me acting on the suicidal thoughts:

Remove stockpile of medication – take them to pharmacy.

Throw away blades.

What warning signs or triggers are there that make me feel more out of control?

Staying home, alone, in bedroom, brooding.

What have I done in the past that helped? What ways of coping do I have?

Phoning Jo and being honest with her.

Keeping busy.

Being with other people.

Writing down my thoughts and feelings – and reminding myself of alternative ways of looking at things.

What I will do to help calm and soothe myself:

Focus on my breathing.

Do something else, anything, for at least 20 minutes.

Then do something else if it still feels overwhelming.

If I still have suicidal thoughts – I’ll call Jo (or others in my plan)

If that doesn’t help, I’ll go to A&E.

What I will tell myself (as alternatives to the dark thoughts):

I’ve got through this before, I can get through it now.

These are horrible thoughts, but they are just thoughts, I don’t have to act on them.

I love Jo and my family, and I don’t want to hurt them.

This will pass.

What would I say to a close friend who was feeling this way?

You will get through this. You will feel better tomorrow and be grateful that you didn’t die. Just do what helps. You’ll be okay.

What could others do that would help?

Jo will remind me of my safety plan.

Who can I call:

  • Friend or relative: Jo xxxxxxx Another? Denise xxxxxx
  • Health professional: Dr xxxxxxx Other? CPN Tom xxxxx
  • Telephone helpline: Samaritans 116 123 Other? xxxxx

A safe place I can go to:

Jo’s place. The day centre.

If I still feel suicidal and out of control:

  • I will go to the A&E department
  • If I can’t get there safely, I will call 999 (112, 911 etc)

Other resources

For more information about dealing with suicidal thoughts and making safety plans, see this section of the Students Against Depression website

University of Portsmouth Student Wellbeing Service Contact Details:

Phone: +44 (0)23 9284 3466

Email: wellbeing-admin@port.ac.uk.

Location: Nuffield Centre, Second Floor, St Michael's Road, Portsmouth, PO1 2ED

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